Thursday, November 22, 2007
Words
We sometimes speak with much ambigiuty
What we say ends up the opposite, sending the wrong message to the other party
Or we do not realise what we have just said actually has hurt someone's feelings
"Why you so stupid?"
"Don't be dumb la!"
Jokingly said, ok. Sure enough, one would accept the fact that they are just joking.
But when a person really does not what is that particular thing or just do not know what is going on, and with the above statements being mentioned time and time again to that person, i really feel like fucking punch that person in the face.
Personally i feel, it is very rude. Are we like that so much more cleverer than the other person?
There are things we know and things which we don't know. Vice versa for every human being we know.
I myself always try not to say stupid or dumb directly in my friends face.
Everyone has their feelings and we need to consider cause it may end up causing unhappiness within the person.
A question bourne out of sincerity, to be taken as a fucked up joke. What is wrong with people nowadays?
We just plainly do not know what to say or better still, when to say certain words at a certain period of time.
Mind your words, watch your mouth
Respect your friends while they are still around
I have been through the phase of losing many friends, believe me.You will only start to cherish your friends when one has passed on.
Karma will come around.
Gifts and curses